serious answers from ladies please?

Question

Ok. At the gym I go to there is a black guy my age (22) who works there who is a personal trainer. I have never hired him but he is very friendly and always come over to help me with the machines, and with advice. Although I ussually don't give guys the time of day at the gym (I'm there to work out), I have always been nice to him because of his outgoing personality and--I admit it--his muscular bod. He's ripped and not bad to look at! Anyway, the other day he comes over and starts saying motivational things while I'm working my legs. Something catches my eye, and I realize that the guy is getting physically excited while watching me. You know how workout clothes are..I could see that the man is blessed. He kind of slinked away quickly and has been shy with me ever since. The whole thing--from his size to his shyness--was a huge turn-on. I can't get it out of my mind. My question is this: Does size matter and is sex more exciting when it is interracial. Does it add a certain spice?

Answer 1

as long as he knows how to use it, size doesn't matter. I once dated a black guy with a huge penis but he sucked and i haven't dated black men since, sorry. So it really depends on how well he can use it because I've had someone who was smaller yet is the best and i haven't left him since.

Answer 2

Why ask us? If you wanna go after him then go ahead! If he's friendly towards you but is shy, then you should talk to him! He could be shy because he likes you but is unsure how you feel about him and also that your white and he doesn't know what others will think when they see you talking to him! if that's the case then you may want to try little things first, to show you like him and then wait for him to make his move!

All thoughts aside, go with whatever you two think is best for each

other.

Answer 3

Sex is what you make it. 95% of it happens in your mind. Size doesn't really matter, and some people think that interracial is more exciting. I think it is just the person and the chemistry, skin color has nothing to do with it.

Answer 4

The thing is what if you guys end up doing some thing together and for one reason or another it doesn't work out between the two of you will you be able to go to your gym and feel comfortable around him? If you can then go or it if it works out great and if it doesn't hey it won't effect you.It will just be an itch that needed to be scratched.

Answer 5

No..size does not matter. get to know the guy first if you have sex on your mind. but,if you have never been with a black guy..think of how your family,friends,relatives. would think about your relationship. that's the problem with single women..always jumping into bed with a guy then regretting it later! maybe he is not interested in you that way anyway!

Answer 6

I think it's a great idea addin a lil spice because u never know u might learn something I always love dating international guys cause I'm into different cultures but it's up to you and how you feel some ppl might think it's horrible to date outside your race i find it as a talker. go for it and hey if his chocolate hint hint really good in bed Lil seriously and they have some spice into them

Answer 7

I don't know about interracial sex never had it before although I've heard the expression once you've had black you never go back (to white). He sounds gorgeous - I hope it all turns out the way you want it too.

Answer 8

Well it is a preference and like any man, I have had some that suck and were whiteand I have had some black guys who sucked and 1 who i really enjoyed, it is all about the actual guy....



And not all black guys are huge, but just too be sure give him a ride and see how you like it...

Answer 9

Does size matter?



yes, (for me, anyway) I think bigger is usually better.



Is it more exciting when it is interracial?



not necessarily.



Does it add a certain spice?



I suppose. If you've never experienced it, I guess that would be new and exciting. go for it!

Answer 10

this was more of a question to ask a friend or a sister, not the world on the internet. go with him if you want to, but i dont think its right. god made different races for a reason. ever heard of "the browning of america"? because whites are having children with other races and america is darkening instead of staying its beautiful many colors, its sorta fading the population into one color.

Answer 11

Who cares if he's black? It sounds like there is some attraction between the two of you. As long as you're both available, what's the harm in going out with him to see if you're really compatible? Go for it! Have fun and be safe! :)

Answer 12

I don't care much for size, it might hurt you or the inter racial thing, it comes down to this, a man and a woman. I don't care about size nor race of the man i want.

Answer 13

I guess it depends girlfriend. I have friends that love black men for the size, but personally I felt nothing but pressure and pain no gain... Try it.

Answer 14

Opposites do attract. Size does not matter. It's what you do with it that counts. Probably his personality is a turn on for you.

Answer 15

girl yes size does matter nd once u get it 4rm a black man u always wana go back

Answer 16

Race and size has really nothin to do, its just their personality that has to do with that..... well maybe just thickness of the u know what ... but the other thing doesnt.

Answer 17

If your interested just date him..Color and size don't make a difference if the feelings are there. Its all on how you use it and not how much you have or what color it is.

Answer 18

Does size matter: yeah, kinda. but connection matters more.



Is sex more exciting when it is interracial: not necessarily.

Answer 19

No it depends on the chemistry between you and him, which seems to be at a peak! I say go for it....just be safe about it. Have fun!

Answer 20

Obviously, it's doing the trick for you. Give the guy a tumble and see how it goes.

Answer 21

He probably does this a lot with other women at that gym.

What a perv!!!

I say get over it and moved on.

Answer 22

you might be overreacting when u said the way he looks at u. but the race doesnt matter.If u like him go make a move hun!

Answer 23

Yes, size does matter, but no, race doesn't matter.

Answer 24

i think sex is all about preferences anyway...so at the end of the day the answer would be "whatever floats your boat"...

Answer 25

EEEEEEWWWWW!!!!! But then I'm a lesbian and the thought of any man black or white just disgusts me!!!! LOL!!!! But hey, girl, whatever cranks your tractor!!!! LOL!!! Good luck!

Answer 26

THIS ISN'T A CURRENT EVENT.



Don't you have some friends you could ask about this? FYI ... Real ladies don't talk about topics like this.

Answer 27

I wouldnt know. But my friend seems to think so!

Answer 28

It doesn't matter, if you like him for whatever you like him for, then ask him out, or whatever. He obviously likes you.

Answer 29

you owe me 2 pts for making me read all that

Answer 30

jen....get a life, really its sad you thought this worth posting, it sounds like some bad romance/porn story

Answer 31

You want serious answers??

Then ask serious questions!

Answer 32

once you go black, you can't go back...lol

Answer 33

i would say no it don't matter

Answer 34

i guess..........